Always leave the window open, but leave it open under your own terms, not hers. You figure, what's the harm, right? If you can catch your ex stalking you profusely on social media—preferably without his or her awareness, you have one of the best signs your ex is pretending to be over you. And be in the center lights. My college ex sent me an email about three years after we broke up. When your ex-girlfriend agrees to meet you, she’s at least open to giving you a chance to get things right. Assuming she reached out to you, the chances are decent that she has been questioning whether the breakup was the right choice.. She’s telling you that she may be open to getting back together with you, if you do things right.. further why go back when the relationship lack any real love. Isabela on August 27, 2018: My ex said this “I don’t even know you anymore and don’t ask why” what is that supposed to mean. Then, your ex texts you asking to catch up. As someone who often shies away from meeting people, I think I can answer this. Tell her to catch up with you in a confident, easy-going manner. When my ex told me he wanted to be friends with me, I … Wrong. He just wants a puppet. You left for a reason. Then don't do it. I can only wish him happiness. He invited her because he has been trying to get back with her for a while by texting and emailing her. My ex of 7 months wants to meet up tomorrow. If your ex-girlfriend doesn’t like some aspect of your core personality, then that’s going to cause problems again and again. Just stay away. ... ← My Girlfriend Wants A Break But Still Contacts Me. If she says that she isn’t sure, just tell her that it’s totally fine for ex’s to catch up and say hi. You sound so sweet awww Um I think if you really think it's going to bring back memories it's best to put off the 'catch up'. My ex is like gum on the bottom shoe. If your ex says they "miss their best friend" or "want to catch up" and you don't feel comfortable with that? Ugh. If 3 or more of them are true, then there's a very good chance that he or she is willing to try things out with you again. Here are eight reasons you should let your ex stay in your past: 1. Don’t let anyone come in and out of your life however they see fit. When your ex wants to meet up, you should ideally follow this process - 1. Maybe she just wants to stay friends like you said 5 years is a long time and to wipe someone out of your life is not too easy. My girlfriend wants to go have dinner with her ex "just to catch up." If she still resists, you can say that the catch up can be a way for both of you to get closure and completely end the relationship. Share your feelings with them - but before you do, make sure that your ex actually wants you back! ... July 13, 2020 at 1:18 pm. 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